Are You Waiting for Your Happiness?

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If you are waiting for the happiness to arrive onto your door, you are just wasting your time. Sorry but it’s the truth and I cannot condole later. Lately, I have broken up with my girlfriend whose relation was probably 13 years old but I have broken up with her. Why? Because she has screwed me around the years while I have waited for the right moment to come and change our relationship but it never happened and I bet it was never going to happen. Some people can never change themselves, you must change them (change in the sense of leaving them on their own). You deserve better and they deserve your break-up! She has let me down when I talked about me, myself, my life and my passion. I also used to talk about her, her life and her passions during which she has been excellent! But what about me? I didn’t matter to her? Yes I really didn’t. I had thought that she is going to lose something significant if I leave her but it never was the case and it never will be. I know she’s been just fine exactly like me. I have started working on my passion to build different inspirational blogs and to write for others too. I am getting well-paid and I am OK with it. Happiness is achieved – not owned for granted. You cannot make yourself happy if you go on pleasing other people. Lately, I was watching a Hollywood movie titled ‘The Internship’ in which there’re two salesmen who have been fired out by their company because of recession time. They start googling and they find that Google is organizing internship program in which it will appoint one team in Google Inc. They get into it and start working on their dream of working in open environment where employee is give freedom to raise his voice. And they did it even after many obstacles in their way. Why? Because they didn’t wait for the happiness to arrive, they started working on it and they got it. This is as simple rule as Einstein’s law of motion.

Now, let’s get inspiration and wisdom through the happiness quotes given below.

10 Happiness Quotes

  1. Look for something positive about this moment.  Even if you have to look a little harder than usual, it still exists.
  2. When you smile about the life you live, you end up living a life worth smiling about.
  3. Remember, social comparison is the thief of happiness.  You could spend a lifetime worrying about what others have, but it wouldn’t get you anything.
  4. Happiness comes more easily when you feel good about yourself without feeling the need for anyone else’s approval.
  5. Be nice to people on your way up because you might meet them again on your way back down.
  6. Just because it didn’t last forever, doesn’t mean it wasn’t worth your while.
  7. People love others not for who they are but for how they make them fee
  8. Any fool can be happy when times are good.  It takes a strong soul with real heart to develop smiles out of situations that make us weep.
  9. Whatever you do, don’t get stuck on the one thing that ruins your day.  Smile and be grateful.  Life is too short to waste on negativity.
  10. Never let anyone steal your happiness, it was never theirs to take.

Want to get more inspiration? You can go to 30 Essential Happiness Quotes on QuotesNSmiles.Com

Last Word about Happiness

Happiness is often found when and where you decide to seek it. If you wait for happiness within the opportunities you have, you will find it. But if you look for something else, unfortunately, you will find that too – un-happiness probably!

Like this article? Will you please share it with your loved-ones so that they also might understand that what it really takes to being happy. Or do you have something to add to this? Do it below in comments. Thanks


Are You Afraid of Insecurities?

This is guest-post by Nadine Ly.

“Insecurity is a feeling of general nervousness that may be triggered by perceiving of oneself to be vulnerable in some way, or a sense of vulnerability or instability which threatens one’s self-image and ego” – Wikipedia

Let’s get straight. I want you to try a little experiment alongwith me. Are you ready?
Stay in front of mirror and take a look in it for a second. What do you notice? Do you see a beautiful person with great potential or an average-looking person with no or little potential?
If you see a beautiful and confident person, that’s great! You feel like you can conquer anything and can do what YOU want to. But I would like to address those of you who think they’re only ‘average’. Like you, I can also relate to feeling like “I don’t do enough” or “I’ll never be able to accomplish anything”. First of all, let’s clarify that what makes you think that way? Was there an experience in the past that made you think that way today?
There are two sayings that come to mind when I think about this: “We all have flaws” & “Nobody’s perfect”. I’ve heard it over and over and over and over, but it never really stuck to me. But, what I did to relieve this pain of over self-consciousness was to take these two sayings and tested them outside in the real world. What I found was pretty amazing! I noticed that when I talk to others it’s not like I pick apart all the imperfect details about them. I look at their entire image and don’t really care if they dress differently or look different than others. I see them positive way too.

Sometimes what we dislike in us is wanted by others the most. We’re all so busy looking at our own flaws and thinking everybody else notices and dislikes them that we never take the time to notice how much they mean to us. They might not seem great to you, but to someone else, your imperfections are flawless. We’re all beautiful people so take time out of your day today to appreciate your insecurities and I promise they won’t bother you as much anymore. Your insecurities might be your attributes.

Nadine Ly is a life lover and owns a website:Nadinee in which she shares different things on life. She’s an amateur blogger & YouTuber. You’d love visit her YT Channel: Fluky Inkling.

Power of Attitude of Gratitude

“Gratitude or gratefulness is feeling, emotion or attitude in acknowledgement of a benefit that one has received or will receive.” – Wikipedia
The Creator of the Universe has provided us with all of the benefits that we need in order to live a happy and a healthy life. Now these are ‘We’ who have made our world so much greedy that we have changed our happinesses. Media has also played its role regarding this. Now different commercials let us know what we need badly and what we not. This is ‘we’ who to decide but such commercials provoke us to get a luxurious car if we really want to be happy. Now, I’m not trying to convince you not to buy cars, furniture even if needed.i just wana say that these are not the real reasons behind your happinesses. Happiness is a feeling. Thankfulness is also a feeling. Simplifying, apart from artificial worldy stuff, there’re thousands of thousands of things that we should be thankful for. This is not problem that we dont have benefits to be thankful for; but the problem is that we dont acknowledge them. We’ve forgot simple natural stuff in this crazy going world of materialism. I simply want you to be grateful for every aspect of life. Why? Because:

Attitude of gratitude helps you understand the nature
To be grateful, you are to acknowledge things. You’ll begin to search and seek out the things that are near you. This is the way you can understand the nature. More things you’ll find, more thankful you will become for them.
And Allah (God) says in Quran, “If you’ll be more thankful, I’ll give you more.”

Gratitude makes your relationships more strong
Social needs are those basic needs that human-beings own; this is why they’re designated as social animals. If need is fulfilled, man gets happy. And more happy you are; more will be the people around you and vice versa.
He has not thanked Allah (The God), who has not thanked people” – Holy Prophet Hazrat Mohammad SAW
You’ll be grateful for little or bigger gifts and acts by the people around you; stronger relations you own. Dont you get happy when you’re thanked?

Gratitude attracts what we want
This is universal law that more focus you put on things, more they’ll be attracted to you. And if you think about the things that you’re thankful for; you will ultimately attract that closer. Be grateful for things you have and even for the things you dont have.

More Gratitude, Less Aggression
If you google, you’ll come to know that recent researches have shown that being more grateful makes you less aggressive. Apart from these studies, you must have experienced this. If not, then experience it; I bet you will enjoy.

Gratitude reduces negativity
A guy has lost his leg and you might think how frustrated guy he must be. But if he replies, “Thank God, I’ve not lost my second leg”, you must get surprised how positive he is. Do you get why? Because he’s thankful. Gratitdde always reduces negativity. In bad situations, you always need positive behavior, but chances of negative thoughts are higher; because the situations are bad. A thankful guy can handle these situation more suitably.

“Grateful people have more energy and optimism and are less bothered by life’s hassles.” – Founder of Success Consciousness

“Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more, if you concentrate on what you dont have, you’ll never ever have enough.” – Oprah Winfrey

“It’s not happy people who are thankful, it’s thankful people who are happy” MY Favorite Gratitude Quote by Unknown Writer

“There’s always to be thankful for, if you cannot pay bills, you can be thankful you are not one of your creditors” The Quote From Unknown Writer That Inspired Me To Write This Post

Here’s the shortest list of the things to be grateful for:

-Parents: for producing you and growing you up.

-Family: for being the closest kinship in the world.

-Friends: for sharing bad and good time.

-5 Senses; for letting you know/feel the world around you.

-Speech: for letting world know what’s inside you.

-Immune System: for making you away from diseases etc.

-Sexual System: for reproducing and pleasure.

-Heart; for pumping blood

-100s of other parts of body; to make you complete human machine.

-Sun: for getting light and heat from it.

-Rain: for waters etc.

-Animals; that you use for transport, food etc.

-Shoes: for comfort.

-Kind strangers: for giving you sweet memory.

-Love: for you can feel that you are alive.

-Job: for being the source of your living, food, clothes etc.

-Movies: for learning morals etc.

-Oxygen: for you breathe through.

-Transport: for saving your time and much energy, etc.

-Internet: to exchange ideas, knowledge, memories, services etc with the globe.

And the list is limitless, share the things that you’re thankful for in comments. I’d love to read them: